Originally Posted by Sticky
Depends on who writes it and what all is in it. Usually they're only not effective if either you cheated on her, or the attorney you had write it just wasn't that good at writing them. Just depends, but I'd say in most cases very effective. In mine, I'd make also make sure I got the ring back and whatever car I bought her, house, etc. I'd want rights to having it all back then I could choose what she gets to keep, not her lawyer. Just giving you ideas, it's not stuff you should have to worry about, but unfortunately do, and any girl not willing to sign one just shows me she's not truly in love as there should be no second thought if so. "